Soul Connect Programme 

Our individual strengths make us truly unique and present us with an array of beautiful opportunities in our personal relationships.  Without an awareness and understanding of our own and our partner’s strengths, we are prone to experience our partners through the filters of our own belief systems and strengths.  In doing so, we inadvertently impose our own natural ways of thinking, feeling and behaving upon our partners. 

This frequently results in increased and incorrect negative thoughts of and misguided beliefs about partners, more frequent feelings of isolation and being misunderstood.  This in turn exacerbates feelings of being unappreciated and invisible, further breaking down effective and positive communication resulting in an inability to have constructive disagreements and conversations.  The aforementioned and many more factors ultimately culminate in continuous cycle of cause and effect which reduces a once promising relationship to ashes.

Yet, through all the potential dangers and quagmires, there is a proven and effective pathway to rediscover your destined life partner.  You can rekindle the love and appreciation you have for each other and discover what an extraordinary human being you are sharing your life with. 

 

An opportunity awaits you to make that connection with your partner you have been longing for: even stronger than before.

The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image.

If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

Thomas Merton

Using a strengths-based approach I will guide you through a unique Couples Programme to:

  • Identify and become aware of you and your partner’s natural strengths

  • Learn about the importance of self and other awareness in your relationship

  • Discover how strengths manifest in natural recurring patterns of behaviour, thoughts and feelings

  • Develop a deeper understanding about how your individual strengths have made you feel and behave and how you can adapt a different framework to really see and understand the true essence of your partner

  • Learn to identify and fully appreciate each other’s uniqueness through your respective strength filters

  • Discover reliable frameworks and learn to practice the principles and methods to reframe destructive thought patterns and behaviours towards your partner and witness a revival of two unique and remarkable individuals

  • Provide you with a pathway and help you to continue to develop your strengths to the benefit of yourself and your partner

  • Enable growth in your relationship as an individual and as a whole

Being aware of your and your partner’s strengths and enabling and allowing

each other to live these to ultimate fulfillment is one of the greatest life-giving gifts which

will enrich your relationship beyond your highest expectations.